Some skills need to be developed in us if we are making an effort to change our personality. Refreshing yourself will be an uphill task however be adamant in accepting your new time table. Consistency is the key to success. Keep motivating yourself and keep moving forward.
Polish your communication skills.
Watch your language. Check what the level of your language is. In case you speak basic language or get stuck with words or adapt the translation method, you need to immediately get the tutor to eradicate your communication skills barrier. Poor communication skills can lead to increased stress, can be the reason for delayed promotions, or even be hurdles in your personal lives. Being a language specialist, I have come across my students who faced the consequences because of the language.
- The metro city man refused to marry the countryside finance as she was not ‘up to the mark’ and could not communicate in English language as per him. They had been engaged for two years. The girl was almost in trauma and took ages to come out of the concern.
Hard reality? It’s fact. Gear up, girls! Let’s not give any reasons to anybody to demotivate us.
- For Parents Teacher Meeting, the middle school boy discouraged the parents to attend the meeting as they lacked in conversing with proper etiquettes. To the extent, he would make excuse to the teacher and get the report card himself.
Hard fact? Folks, we are living in this modern age. Don’t blame the children. They have their own reasons to respect or disrespect you.
- Party time for husband, but wives? One of my students, working in an MNC was hesitating to bring his wife to the office party, fearing to introduce her to his office colleagues. Language was the biggest barrier.
Wake up, girls! Stop the blame game. Check yourself. What would you do if you were in his place? Stop being the victim. Face the reality. Work upon your language skills. Build up your confidence. The world will be under your feet.
